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Dannelly Brown |
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Dannelly is my own personal southern belle. We
all call her dweeb because her initials are DWB. Dannelly hates it
when I say 'whatever' because she knows I'm secretly being passive
aggressive, and she no longer lets me get away with it. She keeps me
honest as there is no pretending when she is in the room. She loves
hugs, lots of beer, and ice cream, and normally in that order. She
calls me on all my crap and I call her on hers. She is emotionally
constipated but one day she will learn to love. She also is impossibly
hopeless in the kitchen and will wait for you to cook something and
then look forlorn and pout until you feed her, but that's part of
what makes her so lovable. Dannelly lives in San Diego and works for
NASSCO sea testing all those big boats the Navy orders.
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Conchita Cruz |
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Conchita is probably my oldest friend. We have a
really long, complicated history involving prank phone calls in
London, homemade pad thai, her giving me all her inappropriate CDs,
sleepovers at her house, robotics, etc. The list could literally go
on forever. We first met sitting next to each other on the bus to
Sea Camp in 7th grade, and she shared her rice krispy treat with me.
I love how we can quickly catch up months and years of our lives
over dinner and I look forward to seeing her every time I come home.
Conchita is little Miss Washington DC now and lives there working
for the Colorado delegation on immigration issues. My favorite part
about Conchita is how her life plan changes so immensely every time
I speak to her (4 months ago she was going to graduate school in
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Francine Shammami |
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Francine (Frankie) was one of the first people I
met at Michigan. She was friends with a girl in my hall and in most
of my classes too. As I got to know her, I began to love her easily-manipulable
Catholic guilt complex, her constant staring off in to space, and
her whining when we went to the bar and she couldn't because she is
2 years younger than all of us. I've lived with her pretty much all
through college and she understands me in an deeply intuitive way. I
have few memories of Michigan that don't involve her. My favorite
part about Frankie is how she cleans the house aggressively when she
is upset. She now lives in Seattle and works for Microsoft doing
secret X-Box things that she can't tell me about.
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Gabriela Alonso |
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Gabi is the easiest person to open up to. I have
known her almost as long as I've known Conchita, from way back in
middle school at Carrollton. I found a note she wrote to me the
other day for my birthday in 9th grade and it made me cry; she is an
inspiration in kindness and patience. We have so many amazing
memories together, my favorite of which is probably spending an
entire evening at Sunset Place talking in British accents. Much of
our recent relationship has been spent trying to decide on a career
for Gabi (I suggested a dolphin trainer at Sea World). Gabi's
ability to "go with flow" is something I admire tremendously, until
it's time for her to decide on a movie and she can't make a
decision! Gabi is recently engaged to Miguel and I am enjoying
having someone to commiserate with about wedding planning in Miami.
She is currently getting her Masters in Human Resources and working
full time too.
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Carolina Astigarraga |
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Caro is my fellow nerd and secretly she knows
it's true! I had nerd jealousy when she got an internship at Wired
Magazine, which was the coolest thing ever, especially when she got
to sit in on an interview with Trent Reznor. She loves Star Wars but
still has totally normal social skills, it's amazing. I've known her
for as long as I've known Gabi. We always hung out together in a
group and would get up to no good, as witnessed by that amazing
Halloween we had which ended up with us covered in flour, dressed in
Gabi's sister's dress-up clothes, in a big wheels, rolling down the
street and singing at 2 AM. Totally normal weekend for us. I miss
Caro's amazing sarcasm and her sense of humor. |
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Maggie Reed (Myers) |
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Maggie was and continues to be a total shock to
my sense of political correctness. I met her in my first Civil
Engineering class and secretly hated her because she had such pretty
dresses. As I got to know her though, and realized what an awesomely
outspoken individual she was, I couldn't help but love her. She says
out loud what we are all thinking, even when it's totally
inappropriate and you can't help but cringe. I have immense respect
for her ability to be completely honest and utterly loyal. I was a
bridesmaid in Maggie's wedding and I am happy to return the favor!
Maggie lives with her husband, John, in Royal Oak where she works
designing city planning, traffic circles, and other fun stuff.
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Dylan Arnold |
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Dylan is my amazingly cool little brother who I
still call Bug. I take some credit for the way he turned out though
because I made sure he listened to Nirvana when he was a baby. He
plays the French Horn and is a self-professed band geek, which is
great because I love listening to him play, even though I can still
hear those same 25 notes from Till Eulenspiegel in my sleep.
He also is a very good long jumper and likes playing ultimate
frisbee. When he is not plotting to overrun medieval Europe, he
enjoys watching Germany play soccer and graduating from high school.
Dylan will be attending Penn State in the fall and I am SO excited
to have another reason to watch Big Ten football. |
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